Marriage: Help with… How to… Understanding…
Aug 7th, 2007 by Paul
Marriage is a wonderful blessing. It’s also a big adjustment for two people with many obstacles to overcome. Finances, communication, kids, in-laws, stress at work and a possible affair are but a few things couples will have to deal with.
People get to a point that these obstacles in their marriage are difficult to handle so they begin looking for answers and begin searching for someone to help them.
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Hi,
Our marriage goes up and then it comes down. I know that my husband does not want to really break up when we have dissagreements. He is a hot head and a non believer but has the potential to want God. He has struggled with depression and bipolar for the most part of his life, well since he was a boy. He has been hurt alot from family and other relationship that he doesn’t understand geniune love. We are at this point coming out (or trying to) of addictions. I just recently stopped him from seeing porn and going to adult caberets. He doesn’t like it much but I stand my ground in God. He has been bugging me about a threesome which I consider for him to cheat on me with permission. I battled voices in my head that were in a sexual nature. I called friends and that’s really all I can do because my friends and myself are always on the run. I want to go back and root myself in a church. I sing and always in my secret closet sing to God. I love my husband and I know he loves me but the addictions and the shallow mind games he goes through can be overbearing for me. We have gone to counseling but the women was not Christian, which made it difficult. I use to counsel couples in my church for many years until an actual degree was involve and at that time I couldn’t afford to go back to school much less pay for it. I had been a widow for eight years prior to my second husband (JOHN). I don’t know what to do at this point, I want him and myself to be happy but he is always negative and live for the moment. It has been five years now that we have been married and he still finds it difficult to mingle with my children (teens). And always blames them for everything that goes wrong in the home but he attacks me with it. We have done all the we can to keep this marriage but it’s difficult because I am always on the watch with his addictions and if he will cheat on me. Althought he swears up and down that he would never. In my gut I feel really wierd, I really do feel it’s the enemy but at the same time the addictions attract the female demons too. What do you think and suggest. Divorce is out of the question for sure. I couldn’t bear with a semi-death. Please-please help me-help US
Anita,
Let me first agree with you that divorce is not the answer because God hates divorce, His plan for marriage is perfect and that is the key and the answer to your situation. Get back in church and submit to God’s design for marriage and also seek a Christian marriage counselor.
I will also add that once you are back in fellowship with God, take your request to the Father. I say that because we can not change a person but God can. So get back in a right relationship with God and take your situation to His throne room and pray, pray and pray. He loves His children.
God bless you and keep your focus on Jesus.