Always Speak Positive Words About Your Wife
Feb 26th, 2008 by Paul
One of the saddest things I witnessed one day was hearing a man belittle his wife with negative words while she was away. It bothered me so much that I immediately told him that he should not say things like that.
When I hear of men doing that it tells me that their marriage is lacking in love, something maybe interfering like certain needs not being met or it may be an argument they just had. Regardless of what the cause, it’s no reason to belittle them in front of others, especially if it’s your wife.
If a man is verbally saying negative comments about their spouse, I can only imagine the negative thoughts they are entertaining or how bad they think of themselves.
Wives are a lovely gift from God to help her husband and finding a wife is a good thing. The loving words we speak to them or about them in public is like taking a soft cloth and polishing her to shine even brighter. On the other hand, words that belittle her is like taking sandpaper which dulls and takes away from her beauty.
Words of affirmation is like a breath of fresh air to a women, it energizes her, she feels loved, rests in security and her self-esteem flourishes like a new spring flower. Her beauty only increases and magnifies to the level of importance for her husbands needs.
Men, remember the love that drew you to your wife, she is still the wonderful person you said “I do” to. She still needs your caring and loving words as well your wonderful thoughts of her when she is not around.