The Delicate Days
Mar 17th, 2008 by Paul
So, what are the delicate days? It’s those few days in a young women’s life that makes her uncomfortable and irritable. If you are a married man you know which days I am talking about. That’s right, PMS.
This is the time when a man’s love and care for his wife is really tested. Test such as of patients, how much you love her, being a conversational sound board and many other areas that will test the endurance of a man. It’s a time when each man has to walk a fine line of being a servant to his wife’s needs and like egg shells, your wife’s feeling can easily be crushed if not careful.
It’s also days of sacrifice because the first inclination is to run out of the house and wait for this time to pass. Trust me sometimes that will only add fuel to the fire that is already raging in her emotions. Therefore going out with the boys or retreating to your own comfort zone may not be a good idea.
Now if you need help in gaining a few brownie points, here are a few suggestions. Make sure the car she uses has a full tank of gas. Make a point of cooking the meals and washing the dishes. Give the kids a bath and put them to bed. Do some cleaning around the house and always surprise her with hugs and words of affirmation.
Basically help by doing a lot of the little things she does around the house. Remember that it may seem a little hectic at times and you may make a few mistakes along the way but keep trying. There may be times when you think your sacrifice goes unnoticed.
Believe me, she will notice and the rewards following the end of those days will be surprisingly wonderful and worth every effort and sacrificing moment. Love and romance will take on a new meaning as you show how much you care and love her.