Help Her with the Little Things
Jul 9th, 2007 by Paul
Yesterday my wife ask if I could help her with dinner by chopping onions. I agreed to help her because I know how much she appreciates it and I get to spend some time with her in the kitchen. It’s the little things that opens the door to sharing similar interest with each other.
By doing little jobs around the house and helping her may seem a little feminine and not mans work but to her it’s a masculinity she loves about me. I am showing her that I care about her and she really values the love behind my actions. It may be a small thing to me but to her it is very big and will always be treasured.
How do I know this? I know this because her love language is acts of service. Every little thing I do brings us closer to intimacy, a time of sharing each others feelings. When I see the love in her eyes, a warm smile, and sweet thank you followed by a gentle kiss. It now becomes a very big thing to me and motivating to do more things for her because I now see the benefits of my efforts, Her love.