Know Your Wife’s Likes and Dislikes
Nov 1st, 2007 by Paul
One of the secrets to loving your wife and for her to love you is to know her limits, the boundaries by knowing what she likes and the things she does not.
The reason most marriages have trouble in the first year is because of changes and adjustments to new habits. Both you and your wife are learning what each one enjoys and find pleasing or the things that really annoys you.
Here are a few examples, my wife likes it when I go and do the grocery shopping for her and sometimes we go together. She likes shoulder and back massages but she does not like to be tickled. She enjoys conversation of most topics but she does not like to be interrupted during mid conversation of a point she is trying to make.
Now in order to find out what she does like and things that don’t appeal to her requires a little conversation on your part. When you see that your wife likes something, ask her about it, believe me this will also be a time of intimacy and she will love you for even asking. Also do the same thing when she is displeased with something because you do not want her to be mad at you. Just politely ask her the reason for her dislike and let her know you want to understand, trust me she will love you again because you are showing genuine concern and care for her.
Here is a suggestion to help, whether you are just married or have been for a long time. Start keeping a journal and write down everything that your wife enjoys, what makes her laugh or cry, happy or sad, things she hates and especially what makes her love you. This will become your reference book for the times you may forget the simple things because as for most of us men we tend to forget. So begin a journal and express your love by studying her likes and dislikes.