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Comment on Loving Your Wife also means Listening to Her Counsel by Paul

Paul — Sun, 14 Jun 2009 02:52:48 +0000

Isaac,
The key to being a better husband is to acknowledge that our wives are gifts from God. They are our helpmates and best friends, as men we don’t have all the answers but having a friend to talk with helps bring answers and sometimes they are from the other person.
A man’s pride will keep him from really achieving the intimacy he desires but if he learns to love unconditionally then his wife becomes the helpmate and friend he needs.

Comment on Loving Your Wife also means Listening to Her Counsel by Isaac Anderson

Isaac Anderson — Tue, 09 Jun 2009 00:26:51 +0000

Hi, I just got married not to long ago. I do find it hard to listen to my wife when she says to do or not do something. She always ends up being right. Why do I struggle so much? I do love my wife very much, but dont understand how i mess up so much. I want our marriage to last forever and I know we can make that happen. How do i be a better husband?

Comment on Love Your Wife Because The Children Are Watching by Paul

Paul — Sat, 19 Jul 2008 17:00:45 +0000

Mike,
Thank you for a very insightful comment.

Comment on Love Your Wife Because The Children Are Watching by Mike

Mike — Sat, 19 Jul 2008 04:30:17 +0000

Great blog!!! A great book for married men is “How to Love You Wife” by Dr. John Buri. It changed my life!!

Here’s the short description of the book: Some people have suggested that a successful marriage requires tremendous insight to understand and super-human effort to achieve. Others contend that happy marriages are the purview of a lucky few. In this ground-breaking book, How To Love Your Wife, it is revealed how thriving marriages can actually be achieved through sensible effort by reasonable people. But here’s the catch. Since the majority of marriages in this country consist of unions in which wives are more heavily invested in marital success than are their husbands, much of this sensible effort by reasonable people needs to be consistently initiated and maintained by men. In fact, men often hold the keys to bringing about the type of loving marriage they had hoped for when they first said “I do.” In How To Love Your Wife, these keys are made clear, understandable, and accessible.

John Buri’s website: http://personal.stthomas.edu/jrburi/

The book on amazon: http://www.amazon.com/Love-Your-Wife-John-Buri/dp/1598864858/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1216440988&sr=8-1

Comment on Marriage: Help with… How to… Understanding… by Paul

Paul — Sun, 11 May 2008 02:10:22 +0000

Anita,
Let me first agree with you that divorce is not the answer because God hates divorce, His plan for marriage is perfect and that is the key and the answer to your situation. Get back in church and submit to God's design for marriage and also seek a Christian marriage counselor.
I will also add that once you are back in fellowship with God, take your request to the Father. I say that because we can not change a person but God can. So get back in a right relationship with God and take your situation to His throne room and pray, pray and pray. He loves His children.
God bless you and keep your focus on Jesus.

Comment on Marriage: Help with… How to… Understanding… by Anita & John Herbst

Anita & John Herbst — Tue, 06 May 2008 21:44:44 +0000

Hi,
Our marriage goes up and then it comes down. I know that my husband does not want to really break up when we have dissagreements. He is a hot head and a non believer but has the potential to want God. He has struggled with depression and bipolar for the most part of his life, well since he was a boy. He has been hurt alot from family and other relationship that he doesn’t understand geniune love. We are at this point coming out (or trying to) of addictions. I just recently stopped him from seeing porn and going to adult caberets. He doesn’t like it much but I stand my ground in God. He has been bugging me about a threesome which I consider for him to cheat on me with permission. I battled voices in my head that were in a sexual nature. I called friends and that’s really all I can do because my friends and myself are always on the run. I want to go back and root myself in a church. I sing and always in my secret closet sing to God. I love my husband and I know he loves me but the addictions and the shallow mind games he goes through can be overbearing for me. We have gone to counseling but the women was not Christian, which made it difficult. I use to counsel couples in my church for many years until an actual degree was involve and at that time I couldn’t afford to go back to school much less pay for it. I had been a widow for eight years prior to my second husband (JOHN). I don’t know what to do at this point, I want him and myself to be happy but he is always negative and live for the moment. It has been five years now that we have been married and he still finds it difficult to mingle with my children (teens). And always blames them for everything that goes wrong in the home but he attacks me with it. We have done all the we can to keep this marriage but it’s difficult because I am always on the watch with his addictions and if he will cheat on me. Althought he swears up and down that he would never. In my gut I feel really wierd, I really do feel it’s the enemy but at the same time the addictions attract the female demons too. What do you think and suggest. Divorce is out of the question for sure. I couldn’t bear with a semi-death. Please-please help me-help US

Comment on Support Your Wife’s Career Goals by Paul

Paul — Tue, 26 Feb 2008 02:35:23 +0000

Support is taking time to share in her interest and in this case her job or a small business she wants to start. Women enjoy sharing about their interest, especially with their husbands. She likes to know that you approve and to know that you care about her. suppoting her career choices expresses that love to her.

Comment on Support Your Wife’s Career Goals by music

music — Thu, 31 Jan 2008 18:41:41 +0000

What do you mean ?

Comment on Sorry and Forgiveness is Love by the listener

the listener — Sun, 20 Jan 2008 17:24:15 +0000

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Till i visit you again,
I remain,
The listener

Comment on Determination by the listener

the listener — Tue, 27 Nov 2007 21:10:28 +0000

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